Is it more than a "child love" that kids want?
Well, this page takes you two ways to find the answers to your questions, with inspirational solutions to some family matters concerning children's love.
You could do one of the following, if you're getting frustrated, because your kids refuse your love. You will find some answers below to treat your child well with love without spoiling it.
There're many problems out there concerning our love to our children, and some parents are getting more confused everyday, because they think that their kids are getting out of control.
Those children are over 14, as I heard from their parents. They just refuse to be treated by that kind of child love and wanted to feel they are young and... well, have grown enough to have that control.
They even laugh when they see some instructions in some supermarkets to know that they cannot buy lotto, or beer and ask why sixteens could do that. They may even smash or smooch them with anger.
Although it's not a matter of control, and some modern parents may think the word is not suitable, or even worse, I should say there're some experiences to this issue.
It all depends on the dialogue you run when you deal inside your family and even out of the house, when you take them to some places. You can express your love the other way around.
Upgrade it when they are kinds. "Standardize" it and develop it with the sense of the way they think. Feel yourself at that age, without having to throw your brain away. Keep balance between your feelings and your mind. That is the best way to "standardize" your child love.
Some parents withstand their child love, when their kids exaggerate for long on their disobedience, by using some measures to control them. Those who practice this kind of control say that they do not mean dictating their children.
It's on "child love" that people from my culture and I, for example have been oriented to do a massive job. We love our kids, although they might be alerted when they become teenagers to refuse our overwhelming child love.
They may act like being mature enough for dads or moms love. When this feeling occurs and when they believe that their maturity should be respected, moms and dads may feel time has arrived to be neglected.
So, what are they going to do? Or what they should do exactly to eliminate any contradiction between their willingness and that of their kids?
I do not believe that there's a problem at all in this situation although some parents do. There's indeed a major change on relations between them and their kids, that should take place, if they are still bringing them up using their old methods.
Those methods are old fashioned or designed for babies. "Child Love" goes beyond that to motivate parents to use bright letters while wording with some polite touches to address their kids and show them the right way.
What parents do need really is to change their old golden days methods and be optimistic to reflect good pictures for your children to understand any issue in question. Some problem management skills they get from the resources of child love could help them manage kids problems.
Methods that are made up for babies or very young children will of course be controversial for kids. They will not live up to them. Even parents will not meet the end goals of raising good children, each with good formal measures of intelligence, passion, self ideal and self improvement skills.
If changes occur mentally and physically in their children physical and human structures, so why should their parents' instructions be the same?
Every age has it own rules and that what makes the "standardized child love measures" I pointed above work to help children and parents alike, considering some bright letter and polite touches towards children.
There's a saying that goes like this: "When your child grows you should become his brother." I assume the controversial meaning also in this proverb concerning the child sex. However, there is always a variation between love and sex and further between love and romance.
When you become his brother, or even sister for your daughter, s/he understands you well, because you feel like him or her. The point is that only your feelings tell you what they feel and tell you even how would they accept this or that in that age.
Any well oriented practice of discipline could reflect positively on their children the get the idea of seriousness in serious situations and know exactly how to live up to the challenges.
It is part of the responsibility parents should try to raise their kids with to help them build good personal charisma and go through some methods of building distinguished carisma to live real personal happiness and achieve personal success.
Who says, mothers only can raise their daughters well?
I did not find any logic in this statement, as we hear it continuously in traditional and conservative societies and even in modern societies. This is because the gentle sex tend to have more love for their fathers than the love they have for their mothers.
Girls love their fathers more. I can see many eyes stopped at this. The fact is just beyond that physiological understanding and psychological barriers (psychobiologically reside) between the gentle sex and what I love to call the wild sex.
It is not a gender issue. But, it certainly is a matter of observation to some behaviors here and there, while experimenting with child love to find solutions to some questions.
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